tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2430133207535205630.comments2023-04-29T09:38:27.813+01:00Marriage with AltitudeFlying Highhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16663803493095524390noreply@blogger.comBlogger619125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2430133207535205630.post-39781039574497325942016-01-16T15:32:23.129+00:002016-01-16T15:32:23.129+00:00Pilot is a profession just like any other professi...Pilot is a profession just like any other profession. The only difference is, this profession is on the road a lot, and therefore facing a lot of temptations. As far as cheating, it depends on their moral values. Having temptation is human, resisting temptation depends on your values. I am not a pilot, but also a road warrior for work. I have never cheated on my SO despite of plenty opportunitiesSpringBrzehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00913187885506618155noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2430133207535205630.post-31258911367908387082016-01-16T15:31:03.676+00:002016-01-16T15:31:03.676+00:00Pilot is a profession just like any other professi...Pilot is a profession just like any other profession. The only difference is, this profession is on the road a lot, and therefore facing a lot of temptations. As far as cheating, it depends on their moral values. Having temptation is human, resisting temptation depends on your values. I am not a pilot, but also a road warrior for work. I have never cheated on my SO despite of plenty opportunitiesSpringBrzehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00913187885506618155noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2430133207535205630.post-43217614219064568102015-12-30T21:40:56.239+00:002015-12-30T21:40:56.239+00:00DO NOT MARRY A PILOT!!! You will not get to make ...DO NOT MARRY A PILOT!!! You will not get to make any travel plans more than two weeks in advance, when he does come home all he wants to do is relax (although I've been the one at home working full time AND taking care of the house and kids), and my guess knowing a large number of pilots is that more engage in infidelity than don't. RUN!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2430133207535205630.post-60375113462855186242015-12-30T14:11:45.385+00:002015-12-30T14:11:45.385+00:00Congrats on your children and the move!Congrats on your children and the move!Nullhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13104978798049257495noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2430133207535205630.post-35574780071773827422015-12-14T08:28:43.772+00:002015-12-14T08:28:43.772+00:00I realize I do not belong here and I apologize for...I realize I do not belong here and I apologize for intruding. My husband and I are retired, never in the airline industry. He is 83 and I am taking care of him as he has asbestos in his lungs. I have stumbled in by chasing links from the book, 'The Pilots Wife' and when I began reading posts I couldn't stop. My life is so very far from this scenario. The only reason I wanted to Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2430133207535205630.post-78871266369291461582015-11-03T00:54:43.819+00:002015-11-03T00:54:43.819+00:00Probably not the best thread to ask on... but does...Probably not the best thread to ask on... but does a relationship between an air hostess and a pilot working for different airlines and both based in different countries work or is that to difficult ?<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2430133207535205630.post-13393714526540887592015-10-13T13:26:08.346+01:002015-10-13T13:26:08.346+01:00I just spent all night reading these comments...I ...I just spent all night reading these comments...I didn't date a pilot...but I dated a guy who traveled to Asia a lot and on the date he was telling me about his pilot friends and I joked with him all sexually "Ahhh They're happy are they? *wink wink nudge nudge" and he was all smiling...and we were both all smiling together as we basked in the sexuality of our inside joke...lolAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2430133207535205630.post-17720654877755725202015-10-09T15:04:39.199+01:002015-10-09T15:04:39.199+01:00We're still happily married, thanks for asking...We're still happily married, thanks for asking. Flying Highhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16663803493095524390noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2430133207535205630.post-43926817559079407392015-10-02T16:14:45.878+01:002015-10-02T16:14:45.878+01:00cannot agree more. In essence, FA is just WAITRESS...cannot agree more. In essence, FA is just WAITRESS. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2430133207535205630.post-82891518372101410192015-09-15T20:35:13.044+01:002015-09-15T20:35:13.044+01:00Yes, money is the bottom line for pilots. I marri...Yes, money is the bottom line for pilots. I married my husband 12 year ago and it was trouble from the beginning. He was in the military and went to the airline. The culture is to carry a photo book around to show pictures of you house, your wife, your toys, and your vacations all the things you "own". He uses the phrase "my money" all the time. I am highly educated Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2430133207535205630.post-37212362911954622492015-09-01T21:10:30.923+01:002015-09-01T21:10:30.923+01:00Are you still together ?Are you still together ?Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07229566456697554300noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2430133207535205630.post-73411401334618492242015-04-14T00:23:28.140+01:002015-04-14T00:23:28.140+01:00How are things with you two now?How are things with you two now?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2430133207535205630.post-70809507843097127062015-04-05T03:39:53.824+01:002015-04-05T03:39:53.824+01:00Can you post any advice for divorcing a pilot? I a...Can you post any advice for divorcing a pilot? I am in the exact same situation.<br />Thank you.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2430133207535205630.post-48859281366274187772015-02-26T18:55:11.806+00:002015-02-26T18:55:11.806+00:00Sorry it's not all roses and while I love my h...Sorry it's not all roses and while I love my husband as a person, I truly hate and resent his career at the moment, I hate the unpredictability and that I'm the one left explaining to the crying kids again why daddy isn't coming home when he was supposed to. I'm also the one left scrambling to figure things out when his 2 day trip unexpectedly turns into a 5 or 6 day trip. Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17733413894603869568noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2430133207535205630.post-10513401633840313812015-02-16T00:45:02.743+00:002015-02-16T00:45:02.743+00:00How about an update from all the women from the be...How about an update from all the women from the beginning of the postings on this website from the wives who said... vowed that their perfect pilot husbands would never cheat! Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2430133207535205630.post-66398827601203463392015-02-01T02:03:56.547+00:002015-02-01T02:03:56.547+00:00I wish you luck!I wish you luck!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09868005152628878331noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2430133207535205630.post-28814880199198335172014-12-03T17:05:53.235+00:002014-12-03T17:05:53.235+00:00I hope & pray you do NOT allow him to victimiz...I hope & pray you do NOT allow him to victimize you any further! They will say anything to win the wives/girlfriends back. My ex writes & tells me how much he cries. It's all bs. Don't let your emotions fall for it!! Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2430133207535205630.post-60900282869245911922014-12-03T16:36:48.656+00:002014-12-03T16:36:48.656+00:00You will always be concerned as long as you are wi...You will always be concerned as long as you are with him. Those feelings, the anxiety will never go away as long as you're with him. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2430133207535205630.post-48556295071279035662014-12-03T16:23:24.250+00:002014-12-03T16:23:24.250+00:00You have one of the best posts on here. You are ab...You have one of the best posts on here. You are absolutely correct. I've been reading Codependent No More, I broke it off with my ex, I am free now. And I thank God everyday that I did not allow the relationship to go any further. In addition to these guys cheating, lying, etc, mine is the chief pilot for the company he works for & they have been committing federal crimes in the industry.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2430133207535205630.post-90630560215562847962014-12-03T16:15:26.949+00:002014-12-03T16:15:26.949+00:00I think you wrote it beautifully. I can relate to ...I think you wrote it beautifully. I can relate to things that you wrote. You did the right thing for yourself & for your family. An alcoholic narcissist will never feel remorse. You are right about putting faith in God as well. I'm in the sane boat. I hope things have turned around for you since the date of your post. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2430133207535205630.post-5619839648047068642014-12-03T16:09:03.449+00:002014-12-03T16:09:03.449+00:00I hope that you divorced him. I hope you had the c...I hope that you divorced him. I hope you had the courage, the self respect & respect for your children to obtain a better life. Yours sounds just like mine-the "Gaslighting", the narcissistic behavior. They don't get well. Only we can make the changes. These types of men, of course will beg for us back. That's what they do. It's part of the Codependent dance. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2430133207535205630.post-37480786279707816482014-12-03T16:04:55.341+00:002014-12-03T16:04:55.341+00:00You guys are absolutely correct. Mine was always g...You guys are absolutely correct. Mine was always grumpy & tired too. I never put 2 & 2 together. I do think you are right. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2430133207535205630.post-63822782776142716492014-12-03T16:00:22.343+00:002014-12-03T16:00:22.343+00:00I feel a lot of compassion for your story. It'...I feel a lot of compassion for your story. It's a disgusting industry. I hate saying this, but I'm just being honest....I wish my ex would feel bad for the things he did, but let's be honest here: If they are narcissists, they will feel NO remorse at all. We must move on& heal ourselves now. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2430133207535205630.post-77420969013362315852014-12-03T15:44:26.285+00:002014-12-03T15:44:26.285+00:00Just because a wife is more attractive than a FA.....Just because a wife is more attractive than a FA.....the pilots don't care. I've witnessed pilots with gorgeous wives cheat on them. A vaginas' a vagina to a man. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2430133207535205630.post-72168197380065367642014-12-03T09:52:34.902+00:002014-12-03T09:52:34.902+00:00I agree!!! I agree!!! Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com